"Are you free today? If you are free, come visit me. I just want to have sex for a little while." I just want to have sex for a little while. - Isn't it so bad that when I contact you, you say, ``I can't do it, I'm drinking right now,'' or ignore what I've already read, and only say ``I just want to have sex for a little while'' when you want to do it? - I'm just a total sex friend. - But no, I just want to have sex too.